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Where is the
BADC to counter the reverse racism thrown at other Canadians by our black community?
They are only
reactionary and we as a community must make the change. The reason that the black
community will never become a major player like other racial group is the prejudice
of blacks against blacks. This may go back to the African tribes prior to British
imperialism. But to bring the topic closer to home it probably stems back to slavery
where the house slave was much more above the status of the field slave. The house
nigger as they were called may have seemed quite arrogant when compared to the field
worker. This can still be seen in today's society, especially in the Caribbean community
where the East Indian descent blacks feel that there African brothers are arrogant
and visa versa. Also perpetuated by our own brothers and sister and re-enforced
by society is the shade of your blackness. My skin is darker than yours therefore
"I'm somehow blacker." So why do we blame Caucasians for prejudice, instead of ourselves.
I have spoken with West and East Indians, both from the mainland and South America.
I have indicated that I have been classed as not being black even though my skin
is a rich mocha brown, and I cannot count the times I was called nigger as a kid.
We have to clean up the prejudices amongst ourselves (the black community) before
we can ever hope to change the way society views us as a community. We have to re-teach
our children that the stereotypes portrayed in the media can be changed but we have
to change them, and not wait for society to change them for us. Why is it OK for
one black to call another black a Nigger, but when it is
stated by someone of another race, it is prejudice. I looked up the term nigger
and the only definition I could find indicated that it described a person's ignorance.
No where in the definition did it ever specify a racial class of people. So we as
a community are perpetuating the use of the word, in describing our selves as ignorant.
The systemic
employment practices of the Canadian business community also helped to foster tensions
among the black community and helped to perpetuate the single parent home. Prior
to the mid 40's the only job a person of color could get was either as, a porter
on a train or work in the mines, if you were male. Females were limited to working
as a domestic or finding jobs in child care. This has two very important parts that
affected the black community and their family units.
With the black
male prior to the 60's, they usually had to leave the family unit to locate work.
Thus the female was given the importance of raising the family while the male was
off attempting to find employment. If the wife or mother was fortunate enough to
find work outside the home, it also created an environment of unwatched children.
Thus we have the start of the single parent family. As more fathers became frustrated
by employment opportunities and left their families, the breakdown of the black
family unit began, this re-enforced the dejection and self esteem of the black male..
Also the immigration policies of the 1960's put a lot of Canadian black domestics
out of work due to the cheaper wages of their Caribbean counterparts. This is not
to say that the people who immigrated to Canada, do not have the right to work in
there chosen new country. It built resentment, as hard working black Canadian mothers
once again found themselves looking for work in the white man's world.
Some points
to note are that the hiring practices of the time focused on integration, although
the lighter a black person's skin was the more apt they was to be hired by white
employers. This re-enforcement by the business community,
of judging a person by their skin color also helped to build the resentment and
jealousy, that certain factions of the black community feel toward each other. This
became more apparent as more light skinned Negroes became employed and it built
envy and jealousy in the community and even within the family unit.
I remember
starting school in Toronto in 1965, this was the first year that Toronto schools
became desegregated. I watched my father travel across Ontario looking for work.
I remember when my father went back to college, to better himself and to improve
our families economic condition. This was in the mid 1970's and my father graduated
second in his class. My father could not get work in his new field. No one would
give him an apprenticeship, as there were no black funeral directors in Canada at
the time. My dad was upset but he did not give up. He did not turn his back on us,
but showed us that you have to persevere and continue to make a path for yourself
in this world. No one will magically walk up to you and say you people have been
oppressed for hundreds of years, Here is a million dollars!
We have to
rebuild the black family unit and instill a sense of self esteem in our children.
We cannot turn back time to make up for the past mistakes of slavery. We cannot
punish the living for something that their dead fore-fathers implemented. Slavery
is dead in North America. The sooner we all remove the chip off our shoulders, where
our white brothers are concerned, the better we will be able to deal with our own
issues as a community. Speak up for your rights but don't turn to violence. Let
your children know that they are valued. There are too many single parent homes
where the father has abandoned the roost (this is also pervasive throughout all
racial designations, but once again, I must re-enforce that I am only addressing
the Black community. We must make the change, before we can expect the rest of society
too. Stand up and be counted. Don't deny anyone the right to live in a free and
just society.
We have drug
dealers (Clinton Gayle), gang bangers (like the Jamaican Posse), and gangster rappers
(like Tupac Shakur). We then have the black extremists who scream racism whenever
one of the above types of people ends up dead during the committing of an offense.
I remember the days of Canada past, when the community mourned to learn about a
member of the black community being killed in an auto accident.
We now have
a generation of young blacks who look up to these criminals as role models. Instead
of working toward a high school education, young blacks now seem to want to get
out in the working world and make themselves rich and would do anything to make
it the easy way, like much of society today.
We must remember
that our children are not stupid. The city gang trend today is perpetuated by our
under educated young black men, who gave up on an education. These gang members
may look at this road as a way to financial success. This only leads to personal
decay of character and also changes the way that they view other people, the world,
and their country.
We now have
young kids who talk about killing anyone who DISSES (sic) them. They refuse to show
respect for themselves and for others. Because of peer pressure, the quest to remain
within the guidelines and morals issued by the community, become harder to maintain.
We have to change if we are ever going to grow as a society or community. We have
to let our children know that it is not cool to act as though they are gangsters.
We have to teach them to resolve things without turning to violence. We have to
teach them respect for all people and things, especially themselves. We have to
let them know that the family unit starts with their input. We have to teach them
to be more lenient of other cultures and religions. We have to investigate the reasons
why our young children turn to crime instead of knowledge. We have to investigate
why a great majority of young black children turn to drug dealing and drug abuse.
We cannot blame society as we are the only ones responsible for ourselves. We have
to ensure that our children get a proper education, so that their input is valid
and valued.
Most of all
we have to stop the violence amongst ourselves. We have to help each other and ensure
that we let our brothers and sisters know that there are those of us who care, and
that they can make a difference in this life. These facts have to be passed through
to all races if we ever expect to have a country where
we are truly strong and free.
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